by kaya
Sometimes I get punished for not following a rule, doing something I know I’m not supposed to or vice versa. Those punishments seem perfunctory. It’s an integral part of our lifestyle, this discipline and punishment. Maybe just to keep the roles we each live clearly defined. I don’t respond the same way to these [...]
Sensual Service
A submissive woman’s guide to all things
Woman Within
The Punishment Place
by kaya Sometimes I get punished for not following a rule, doing something I know I’m not supposed to or vice versa. Those punishments seem perfunctory. It’s an integral part of our lifestyle, this discipline and punishment. Maybe just... Read More »
In The Dungeon
The PLEASURE of the PAIN Why Some People Need S & M - sadomasochistic sex
by Marianne Apostolides Bind my ankles with your white cotton rope so I cannot walk. Bind my wrists so I cannot push you away. Place me on the bed and wrap your rope tighter around my skin... Read More »
Intimacy
The Selective Slut
by Kayla Kuffs The first time I was called a slut in a BDSM context I was extremely insulted. How dare they? How rude! But I was too new to this lifestyle to do anything more than think those words. I did however, notice the term slut tossed around... Read More »
Ritual Service
The Importance of Rules
by luna Rules, instructions and assignments are things that are given to me by my Dominant for very important reasons. To follow them should bring me the pride and happiness that I feel for him, and remind me that he cares for me. Rules are in... Read More »
Self Care
Understanding…Feminine Hygiene
by raven Vaginal wetness and odor are normal and all women have to contend with it. My goal with this essay is to educate you on what the most common causes are. Give you some guidelines on how to deal with it safely. Know when... Read More »
Domestics
Ways to Spend Less and Eat Better
1. Shop on Mondays or Tuesdays. “They are usually the least busy days of the week,” says Martha Bullen, coauthor of Never Throw Out a Banana Again. “You’ll have more time to compare costs, take advantage of special deals and... Read More »
Recent Posts
Week of October 6th
Does your Owner discipline you as a part of maintenance even if you have been good?
If the govenment brought back real and legal slavery, would you sign yourself over to your Owner as his/her slave?
What is your opinion of alcohol or drugs in a D/s relationship or part of a scene? Are you of sound [...]
Week of September 29th
Are there any goals you hope to accomplish within the next year? Are there any from the last year you have not been able to do yet but still want to accomplish?
’Think simple’ as my old master used to say - meaning reduce the whole of its parts into the simplest terms, getting back to [...]
Week of September 22nd
Do you feel the desire to please, or obey, or a combination of both? Can either of these desires work to your detriment?
“When once you have tasted flight, you will forever walk the earth with your eyes turned skyward, for there you have been, and there you will always long to return.” -Leonardo da Vinci
Do [...]
Cremecicle Soap
8 oz. MP base (divided into 4 oz. quantities)
10 drops orange oil
1 drop orange food coloring
3 TB. Heavy whipping cream
10 drops vanilla fragrance oil
Melt soap and remove from heat. Add the orange oil and food coloring, stirring until well mixed. Pour half of the mixture into each soap mold and let it set for on [...]
Coffee and Cream Soap version 2
You will need:
2 tsp. Coffee beans (can replace with 1 tsp. instant espresso)
4 oz. MP base
1 tsp. Heavy whipping cream
1 tsp. Aloe Vera gel
Grind two teaspoons of your favorite coffee beans to espresso grade in coffee grinder. Melt the MP. Remove from heat and add the ground coffee, whipping cream, and aloe Vera gel, stirring [...]
